CURRENT EVENTS: Tom Daley and the spectacle of the closet

TomDaley2We are all born in closets. This truth, for many, is immutable. The absolute of the closet today is seen as a less of an obstacle of blatant inequality, and more and more a gauntlet of personal will – hardwood paneling – a self-imposed tomb only you can muster the courage to escape from.

Tom Daley’s recent coming out video took the media by storm – headlining newspapers, trending Twitter, and becoming a general overnight event. It eclipsed even the catastrophe of the Philippines, elevating it to the status of a sublime point de capiton – momentarily colouring the entire spectrum of daily political activity.

Banal responses to the story ranged from confusion as to why a celebrity’s “private life” still ought to be public spectacle in the year 2013, to frantic celebration, emphasising how the outing of a celebrity paves the way for a younger generation to embrace their own confessional narratives.

The double-bind here, between two modes of ‘support’ for Daley and his bravery in staging a public address, of course misses the third crucial option. Why is “coming out” today is seen as the only way for LGBT people to live authentic public lives?

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On Bisexuality, self-identity, and a palpable future for LGBT

Today is a time for reflection on the role and integrity of LGBT in mainstay culture. The junction we face is one of dynamic postmodern shifts in ideological praxis – same sex marriage, the rights for adoption, and the integration of non-binary identity into the prevailing symbolic order.

And yet, still – here we are – obfuscating the true path for equality with fussy splintering and excessive pedantry. Perhaps the real roadblock we face in coming to terms with social acceptance is ourselves – infighting, political correctness, and over-sentimental hysteria. Then again, perhaps not.

Perhaps the real threat LGBT faces today is the exact opposite. What if the thing holding us back is not the radical-subversive kernel which separates us, but the all-intrusive ‘tolerance’ ethic itself? Is it not fair to say that the last thing one wants is to be tolerated? Is it not that the so-called ‘important issues’ such as same-sex marriage and the rights for adoption are but themselves political obfuscations?

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