We are all born in closets. This truth, for many, is immutable. The absolute of the closet today is seen as a less of an obstacle of blatant inequality, and more and more a gauntlet of personal will – hardwood paneling – a self-imposed tomb only you can muster the courage to escape from.
Tom Daley’s recent coming out video took the media by storm – headlining newspapers, trending Twitter, and becoming a general overnight event. It eclipsed even the catastrophe of the Philippines, elevating it to the status of a sublime point de capiton – momentarily colouring the entire spectrum of daily political activity.
Banal responses to the story ranged from confusion as to why a celebrity’s “private life” still ought to be public spectacle in the year 2013, to frantic celebration, emphasising how the outing of a celebrity paves the way for a younger generation to embrace their own confessional narratives.
The double-bind here, between two modes of ‘support’ for Daley and his bravery in staging a public address, of course misses the third crucial option. Why is “coming out” today is seen as the only way for LGBT people to live authentic public lives?